Some you’ve heard of, others you haven’t, and one of them will even offer you the opportunity to date a Victoria’s Secret model.(Hey, to echo Lloyd Christmas, there’s referred to it as the “Soho House of dating apps”—but if you can manage to get an invite, we say go for it.It’s not likely to happen like that at this age, and on the rare occasions when it does, the relationship is usually based on nothing more than lust. A mature woman who values herself doesn’t want to date a man who’s a victim or stuck in the past.Would you rather crash and burn or have a slow sizzle that bursts into hot flames over time? She’s going to walk away and find a grownup guy.◊♦◊Guys, correct me if I’m wrong, but I believe there’s a ‘lid for every pot’, a body type for every guy. Those things are far more important than a Harvard or Yale degree, or whether or not he speaks Mandarin.◊♦◊People in big cities say it’s hard to meet anyone.
Are they unknowingly putting up guards that turn men off?When you were in your twenties, there seemed to be singles everywhere you went, you had a wide circle of friends, who also knew plenty of singles, you went to events and venues that were absolutely packed with mingling singles.It was inevitable that you would have an almost endless supply of dating partners. Now, you probably only really know the people you work with, close friends and acquaintances and most of the ‘does’ you do go to are mainly populated with relatives or people you already know.Physically, you probably don’t look much different to how you looked in your twenties.So if you still look attractive why is it so difficult to attract the right kind of person for you now when you’re dating over 30?